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TRAUMA HEALING – LOVE, WENDY

“Trauma, when left unresolved and untreated, shows up over ones lifetime, repeatedly. A trauma response can be something as simple as a benign word or phrase that causes one to be triggered into feelings and emotions of unworthiness, self loathing, and shame based on a past experience which may have been traumatic and/or extremely stressful.

A trauma response can look like ongoing anxiety, depression, “shutting down” as in “contracting,” isolation, thoughts of hopelessness, and even suicidal thoughts. These emotions then cause us to feel unwell physically.

If we have the “conscious awareness” or the evolution in our reasoning skills, we can connect the dots and take responsibility in recognizing our own patterns of behavior in relation to our suffering.

THIS IS THE BEGINNING OF SPIRITUAL ENLIGHTENMENT WHICH IS OUR GREATEST CATALYST FOR CHANGE.

All we need to remember is that WE ALL HAVE MENTAL HEALTH, and the first step in healing is to listen to, and be guided by, our own truth…and then…to ask for support. This is our greatest form of self care.

”Self care are the actions that we take to achieve wellness, and wellness is where we stand in our power.”

Wendy Blanchard, MS, CHHC, CPS

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DETOURS – LOVE, WENDY

Challenges and obstacles are not STOP signs…

They are Divine interventions meant as a detour to provide the opportunity for a lesson in perspective…

YIELD…LOOK BOTH WAYS…ASSESS…CHOOSE TO GO “THE RIGHT WAY…THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED,  and PROCEED WITH CAUTION as there will surely be another detour, another Divine “lesson” up around the bend.”

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MEDITATION – LOVE, WENDY

“Meditation is any activity where you are present, and fully engaged in whatever is nourishment for your soul.

My meditation practices vary depending upon what type of self care I need to fuel my body, mind and soul. Music, cooking, writing, guided meditation, a walk in nature, or just sitting in silence are all forms of meditation…so long as I am fully present and engaged. Here is where I raise my vibration and experience joy, peace, and connection to Spirit.”

Wendy Blanchard, MS, CHHC

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LET IT FLOW – LOVE, WENDY

“Resistance training makes the body stronger and builds endurance…And, when we are feeling resistance in our mind, it is a sign that it’s time to re-evaluate, and to ask ourselves what is it that we are being resistant to, and why. Allow your intuition to speak. Listen. Acknowledge.

Resist what does not serve you. This is a strengthening exercise for the mind, and for your spiritual health.

Stay in the flow, and the moment you feel resistance…allow yourself to connect with your truth…and simply let it go. This is your greatest catalyst to self awareness, and creating change.”

Wendy Blanchard, M.S., CHHC

 

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PLENTY OF ROOM FOR OPINION- LOVE, WENDY

“Everyone has their own opinion on any given circumstance. As it should be. When there is a difference of these opinions, we act graciously in expressing ourselves in a compassionate, calm, and empathetic voice being mindful of our tone with others. We need to be careful of the way we conduct ourselves and remember that we are all equals…one.

As we all deserve to be heard, we need to offer an opportunity to others to express their views and reasons, and expect the very same in return. Honor each other and meet each other where we are.
And, although we may not have a meeting of the minds…it is always a choice to “agree to disagree.”

Always take a breath, do not react, ask yourself what is it that is the real underlying trigger, perhaps even a past, unhealed wound…observe your own feelings and emotions, take a break, and then…respond respectfully. Use this as an opportunity to build character and evolve.
Be willing to see the other person as you. Remember…We are all in this together.”

Wendy Blanchard, MS, CHHC, CPS