Most of us ask for closure when what we are actually begging for is an explanation. But what happens when the explanation doesn’t end the story, but starts a whole new chapter?
When we ask for the “truth to be revealed” in order to experience closure, we must prepare ourselves to receive it. And, sometimes it will not deliver closure at all. Only more epiphanies. “Truth” can actually open another door into deeper understanding, self-knowledge, resilience, and spiritual discernment.
The hardest truth to face isn’t what someone else hid from us…it is what our own intuition tried to tell us all along.
Wow.
Yet, it may cause us to reach higher, and deeper, in our next relationship. And, we may learn more about our own resilience, and more about the inner work we still need to do, including following and trusting The Universe’s/God’s initial guidance.
The deepest lesson isn’t simply what someone else did or failed to do, but what we knew or sensed before everything unfolded…and what happens when we learn to trust that knowing more fully.
Rebuilding is a process that creates an even stronger foundation of self, with the Universe, and with another as we begin again…
It’s about rebuilding the architecture of yourself first, and then allowing whatever relationship comes next to be built upon something much more solid…
A brick and mortar foundation…vs a screen time illusion.
Love and blessings,
Wendy
