You cannot love someone into readiness, clarity, forgiveness, or mutuality…And cryptic messages are not endearing…
The emotionally intelligent thing to do is to stop editing the pain into polished language and simply let yourself feel the enormity of it without turning it into a conclusion.
It becomes exhausting trying to carry the full emotional weight while also being cast in a fixed role inside someone else’s unresolved story.
This is THEIR weight to carry and perhaps one day…they will unload the unnecessary baggage or even ask you to help them carry what has been weighing them down and free them from their skewed perception.
Until then…LIVE your life.
They are living theirs.
They will either find their own way…
Or not.
Love,
Wendy
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