The sweetest, happiest place to get lost is in the eyes of someone you’ve missed.
Love, Wendy
Author: wendyblanchard044
Author, Mental Health and Wellness Educator, Board Certified Peer Specialist in mental health and substance use disorder, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach
Self worth, self love and self care is sexy! – Love, Wendy
Once certain situations arise and reveal themselves, you don’t feel the same way about people, no matter who they are. It’s a natural part of life, and it will change over one’s lifetime as each situation changes and evolves.
Sometimes, experiences reframe our reality in ways we never expected. Sometimes, it is those very same circumstances that help us to learn, to grow and to evolve, and to connect to our inner selves even more profoundly.
Instead of obsessively trying to make sense of one’s perplexing behavior, constant mixed messages, and one’s relationship instability, ask yourself whether you really want to pursue a connection that is distinguished by inconsistency, instability, immaturity and impermanence.
Have the mindset of “My worth is non negotiable.”
Attract relationships that offer unconditional love, devotion, and steadfastness.
Trust me, when we change our inner dialogue and raise the bar, we stand in our power and we meet a partner we never imagined we could attract.
Self worth, self love and self care is sexy!
Love and blessings,
Wendy
Wellness – Love, Wendy
Swallowing one’s feelings and emotions feeds and breeds inflammation on a cellular level.
Speak up. Release it.
Choose wellness.
Love, Wendy
The Devil is in the Details – Love, Wendy
Being gracious is a spiritual practice.
Being morally complicit in unbound corruption, purposeful deceit and a complete lack of connection to the human condition is the epitome of evil.
“The devil is in the details.”
Love,
Wendy
Unless and Until – Love, Wendy
Oh, trust me…
They are perfectly aware. It is their strategy.
And yet…
They are blinded by their own darkness to the truth that everything they thought would destroy you has somehow been a conduit for growth. It has all been God’s plan to guide you to evolve.
They cannot understand how all of their strategizing, lying and scheming that they thought would break you simply built your character. You embraced each experience and turned it into a learning tool.
As they continue to live in their ego, they will never, ever get it.
And that is exactly the reason that they will never, ever have it.
The greatest lesson that I have taken away from it all is that when we “know God,” we live in abundance, blessings, and peace.
And they will never, ever experience this…
Unless and until…
Love,
Wendy
SIGNS – Love, Wendy
Roadblocks and detours ARE signs.
God/Universe IS answering your prayers. You have to be open to listening and following Divine guidance.
Pay close attention.
There are no coincidences.
Love,
Wendy
Effortless – Love, Wendy
I put forth the effort when you make the effort.
The most loving feeling I know is seeing, feeling and hearing the effort one puts forth into our relationship.
And I am thrilled to reciprocate.
Where there is effort…it is effortless.
Love, Wendy
In “Relation”
Where there is no compassion, there is no empathy.
Where there is no empathy there is no connection.
Where there is no connection there is no relationship.
Where there is no relationship there is no love.
Without these four things, there is no forgiveness, and there is no reason to continue on simply because we are “related.”
Being “related” does not make a relationship.
“I can choose peace rather than this.”
Love, Wendy
Love yourself – Love, Wendy
Chronic disappointment of a loved one born of expectations and the human need and desire for love, will lead to learned permanent indifference and detachment. It is the way our brain protects us from further emotional pain.
We cannot expect others to love us in the way that we love. When we continue to go back to a dry well, we eventually become depleted and dehydrated…thirsting for love that is unavailable.
Give yourself the love that you thirst for, and surround yourselves with those whose cup runneth over… in love.
Love and blessings,
Wendy
Intuition – Love, Wendy
The one clear voice we need to listen to at all times is our own.
Our intuition always guides us with the truth. Never doubt what you KNOW in your gut to be true…
The first time.
Love and blessings,
Wendy
