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Change – Love, Wendy

I am at a breaking point and something has to give.

Living, working, and playing in the confines of a chronically toxic environment promotes inflammation on a cellular level and promotes dis-ease. The only solution is to change the environment.

Now.

Life moves forward whether we are well, or living with disease.

In wellness or in suffering, the journey continues. We have the opportunity to choose which road we take.

Time to do something for my mental, physical and spiritual wellness that is empowering for me…and for you.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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I Will Not Let My Spirit Die- Love, Wendy

I internalized so much of the damaging critiques that I was given by those who were tasked to be my caretakers, yet they didn’t know how to love.

Some are so very deep in my psyche that no matter how much time passes and no matter how much inner work that I do, I will never be able to rid myself fully of the damage.

As I look back now, I realize they didn’t even love themselves.

When we are devoid of self love and connection, we are unable to offer love and connection to others.

I will not let my spirit die.

I am walking through the door that has been opened for me to reclaim my wellness, my joy and my life.

Time to do something for my heart that is empowering for me, for you, for us.

Love, Wendy

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Moment of Grace – Love, Wendy

When I feel depleted, I have nothing to share…I cannot fill your cup.

If I need time, for whatever the reason, it’s not about you. I’m not abandoning you, I’m just making myself a priority today where I offer to myself a moment of grace.

I am worthy of rest and wellness.

Love, Wendy

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Managing Daily Stress For Lasting Wellness – Love, Wendy

Find your inner strength and resolve to allow your mind to steer you towards wellness, recognizing that true resilience comes from within with every opportunity that affords you to practice navigating with a clear mind and healthy body, not from the fleeting relief of external substances. External situations, no matter how challenging, should never dictate your choices or push you towards unhealthy coping mechanisms.

By recognizing and nurturing your inner clarity, you have the opportunity to make healthy practices a lifestyle. Try grounding yourself in healthier ways to manage stress—such as mindfulness, exercise, organic foods, loving connections, and self-reflection where you empower yourself to face life’s challenges and adversity, disappointments and hardships with awareness, grace and stability.

In choosing wellness over temporary escapes, you honor your body and mind, building lasting strength, and a sense of agency that no external circumstance can take away. Remember, the power to heal and grow always resides within you when you practice daily self care, self respect and self preservation.

As it states in my book, Write Pray Recover:A Journey To Wellness Through Spiritual Solutions and Self Care, “Self care is the actions that we take to achieve wellness, and wellness is where we stand in our power.”

Take care of yourself for yourself, and to demonstrate to others how you expect to be treated. By honoring your own needs and setting clear boundaries, you show others that you value yourself and deserve to be treated with kindness and consideration. 

And perhaps, you will encourage those observing your agency and practices to set their own standards a little higher.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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Mental Health and Wellness – Love, Wendy

Our mental health is on a continuum and on any given day, for any given reason, at any given time we move along that continuum and we must be armed with a variety of tools at our disposal as we move along the continuum.

Movement along the continuum could relate to biological factors, environmental factors and even how we practice daily self-care.

Self care is one of the most effective ways in managing our symptoms and to stay ahead of our symptoms. This is especially true when we are aware of our body/mind connection and recognize the symptoms in the early stage of escalation. With this information, we can intervene immediately, and/or ask for support.

We all have mental health.

Our relationship to self driven by self care, self respect and self preservation above all else is the foundation of wellness.

Wellness becomes not just an outcome, but a living practice grounded in our ability to honor and protect the integrity of who we are, and how we experience life.

Love,

Wendy

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Music – Love, Wendy

Music, including melody and lyrics, is the universal language of expression. Music is the accompaniment to one’s experiences, and where one feels safe to “feel” and to emote.

Music reignites our soul and encourages us to reflect, to express our emotions, to be vulnerable, and deepens the process of processing our experiences.

Music invites us to remember, to connect to our joys and sorrows, to celebrate, and to heal in the safe space of our own memories.

Love, Wendy

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“Carry Quietly” – Love, Wendy


Recently, the famous saying, “There are none so blind who will not see,” has pierced my heart. It has become very personal.

And so as I typically do, I asked a question of the angels as to how I will move forward with this information, and they answered me through music. A song entitled, “Carry Quietly” began to play on my Pandora station immediately upon posing my question.

I take it to mean to hold that relationship with love, not to challenge what I observe, to simply practice acceptance without judgement, and to “carry it quietly,” as “there are none so blind who will not see.”

Love can still shine through the cracks of our differences, illuminating the genuineness of the human condition.

By embracing acceptance, we cradle the beauty of imperfection, allowing compassion to blossom even in the face of ignorance.

And perhaps at another time, we plant another seed.

It’s in this quiet carrying that we find strength—not in force, but in gentle resilience, nurturing connections that remind us we are all part of a larger tapestry, woven together by shared experiences and emotions.

Perhaps we can even find a lesson of a deeper understanding of the human condition creating a deeper connection to Spirit, to ourselves, and to others as we “carry it quietly.”

Love, Wendy

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Normalize Making Mistakes – Love, Wendy

Let us normalize making mistakes.

We all make our wisest decisions with the knowledge that we have based on life experiences at any given time.

As we evolve, we have the opportunity to embrace new wisdom and perspectives.

Embracing this process allows us to be more compassionate toward ourselves and others.

Forgive yourself and use your experiences to fuel your growth, transforming challenges into lessons that guide you toward a more enlightened path.