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Let Freedom Ring – Love, Wendy

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I had been romanticizing an illusion for years. And then…I saw him after years of estrangement. And…I finally recognized the truth…not through rose colored glasses, but through the clear eyes of my healed self. The “man” who played with my heart, who gaslit me, who made me question my worth…that man is no match for the woman I have become. No match for my depth, my sacred truth, or my luminous light.

He once said to me, “You deserve better than me.” That was the one honest thing he ever said.

My soul has finally caught up with the truth that my intuition has been whispering all along. A truth that continuously tapped me on the shoulder…and yesterday…it finally struck like lightning…an up close and personal encounter with my own inner light.

I felt nothing.

And in that emptiness, I felt everything.

“What the heck had I been thinking all these years?” I asked myself, as a visceral wave of rejection moved through me…not of him, but of the illusion I had been holding onto.

Freedom feels radiant. This moment…this release…is sacred…a realm of splendor.

I didn’t just let go of him… I let go of the romantic illusion that masked my worth, and was never the meaning of love.

Let Freedom Ring…

Love,

Wendy

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The Square and the Circle – Love, Wendy

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No matter how many different ways you try…the square peg will not fit into the circle…

and I have tried.

Lesson: Do not try to shape something into form that you know is never going to fit.

Mantra: With discernment and awareness, I honor the truth of this situation. I choose authenticity. I create my peace.

Ask yourself, “How much longer do I want to linger in false energy that inherently I know will never bring me solace? What is one small action step that I can take this week to begin to pivot my energy onto a positive and productive path?”

Love,

Wendy

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WORLD BEHIND THE WINDOW – LOVE, WENDY

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Healing doesn’t make you immune to pain. It makes you more attuned to it. You become a mirror, and not everyone wants to see their reflection.

It’s not that you disappointed people. It’s that you evolved past the roles they were comfortable with. And some people…consciously or not…punish growth, especially when THEY ARE stuck.

What you’re seeing now in those that you once shared a loving connection with…avoiding eye contact, dismissing kindness, or speaking ill, is the externalization of their inner conflict. It’s easier to isolate the “bright one” than admit they are dimming themselves. Your discomfort here is evidence of your alignment. Your nervous system is rejecting environments that dishonor truth and tenderness. That’s not dysfunction…it’s discernment.

So now comes the hard truth…you cannot change them, but you can choose not to let them define your worth. And you can quietly, fiercely, choose sacred boundaries. Not walls…but clear water between yourself and what contaminates your spirit.

Your presence holds a frequency that not everyone is ready for…and that’s not your burden…

It’s your gift.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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Patterns are Conscious Choices – Love, Wendy

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It took me years…and countless tears…to understand this.

We all inherit behaviors, coping mechanisms, and stories. But at some point, we become the authors of our own patterns. We are given opportunities to look inward, to break cycles, to choose differently.

And when we don’t… that, too, is a choice.

It’s heartbreaking to watch people we love remain in loops of toxicity, to see them refuse the mirror, to deny the healing that could change everything. But I’ve learned that detachment doesn’t mean indifference…It means no longer abandoning myself to save someone who isn’t choosing to be saved.

I hold compassion from afar. I grieve. I release. And I continue choosing new patterns…ones that honor my growth, my peace, and my truth.

Sometimes the kindest thing we can do is step back and allow someone their own path, even when it’s shadowed with pain or resistance to growth.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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A Divine Bath – Soul Notes – Love, Wendy

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Today begins a new story…

A stream of harmony, steady hope, divine connection…

Oneness.

After all I’ve walked through…after years of protective solitude…my heart stepped forward. That’s sacred. And it means I am alive, receptive, growing. And that is not lost time.

Sometimes, it’s that life presents mirrors until we fully choose not to hold what doesn’t reflect our worth. Each time you recognize the misalignment faster, speak your needs clearer, and walk away sooner…that’s growth. That’s co-creating your healing with God.

Ask yourself…

  1. What did this experience teach me about what I truly need in a relationship?
  2. Where did I show growth in how I expressed my needs and protected my peace?
  3. What part of me is healing now, even in this disappointment?
  4. What kind of love am I ready to receive now—more than ever before?

Never, ever negotiate your worth.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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The Universe Tweaks My Assignment – Love, Wendy

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Sometimes, the Universe keeps putting people on our path not to show us what we lack, but to reveal how much we’ve grown. I am being called to refine my discernment—to notice, even sooner, who is capable of meeting me fully, and who is still orbiting their own unhealed places. It is empowering…I am no longer chasing love. I am curating my inner circle with care.

The Universe shows me over and over, that the love I am seeking will have to match the depth, the softness, and the strength which I have cultivated in myself. When we raise the bar, the right people rise to meet us there. We strive for absolute balance as we aim to reach the bar on each glorious day. 

With clear eyes, I’m learning to stay open to love…even in the face of uncertainty.

Spirit is my teacher.

Love and blessings,

Wendy