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“I used to think that being in recovery was going to be a detriment to my finding the right life partner. I used to feel anxiety that my past disorder would limit me as to who would accept me…all of me… I used to believe that it was going to work against me when it came time to disclose that I am in recovery from substance use disorder.

I have since learned that is actually an asset to any relationship that I engage in as I am thriving in wellness and others are eager to learn how I have arrived here! I have met many potential life partners recently who are so supportive of my journey, and “proud” to be connected! I am completely blown away by the positivity and eagerness of others to align with me, and with my lifestyle!

The ones that choose not to remain in my circle, are not meant to be there, and quite possibly are experiencing their own fear, their own challenges and possibly their own disorders that may be triggered by my story which has absolutely nothing to do with my journey, but with something unhealed inside of themselves. I never take anyone else’s decision to engage, or not to engage personally. I focus on my side of the street and I welcome anyone onto my path who is like-minded, open minded and ready for a meaningful and fun adventure!

I am incredibly proud and humbled by all that I have accomplished in my wellness approach to recovery now in my 9th year, and so deeply grateful to be able to serve others in this capacity. I do feel very blessed.

My story is not a limitation to the right relationship. It is a blessing and an asset. I proudly, and with humility stand in my power, and everyone wants to be “powerful!”

God is so amazing. He has provided me with all that I need and desire, and calls upon me to serve Him.

Every morning in meditation and prayer I ask Him to “please show me where to go, who to see you, what to say and to whom today, to help another person.“ He always delivers.

I am living the life I have prayed for filled with wellness, love, peace, prosperity and the gift of the opportunity to serve others through Divine guidance.”

Love and blessings,

Wendy

“I am always present. I am always here. I am always forgiving. I am always filled with compassion. I am always willing to hear your perspective. I am always willing to offer mine.

I am always guided by the loving Energy of Spirit.”

Love, Wendy

“As I meet new people for potential relationships and friendships, I am excited about the majority of people who are eager to learn, experience and practice wellness!

As I share my journey with more and more people, so many blessings arise from our conversations. We offer each other a safe space without judgement, empathy for each other’s journey, new perspectives, patience, and in the authenticity of speaking our truth, we sometimes find a spiritual connection.

I take deep pride in my wellness approach to recovery, and it is through my story of recovery, rebirth and releasing of old patterns and behaviors where I impart the lessons, and impact others searching for solutions.

My greatest gift, blessing and passion is in serving others through the guidance of Spirit.”

Love, Wendy

I’ve recently been contacted by one of the sweetest men I have ever met and briefly dated. Mark was thinking about me, and reached out for Easter.

He is one of the most grateful and kindest souls with such a strong spiritual foundation and connection that one cannot help but be infected with his enthusiasm and love of the universe, Spirit and his fellow human beings.

This man is so authentic and so inspiring as he offers himself and his experiences to selflessly serving others.

And, Mark reflects back to me the same sentiments where we mirror each other. We learn and teach from the same spiritual curriculum.

A deeply spiritual friendship.

It is always a blessing to be surrounded by like minded, loving souls who give of themselves freely in the name of loving and serving others, and whom connect to another through spirituality of the heart.”

Love, Wendy

“An evolved soul who possesses self awareness and spiritual connection understands the sounds of silence, and that proving a point, or feeling the need to be “right,” diminishes one’s power.”

Love, Wendy

Today I reflect upon the past 8 years of my recovery from Substance Use Disorder, and begin this morning with deep gratitude and appreciation for this day as I begin my 9th year of recovery.

My life is forever changed. My life is about wellness. My life is about sharing all that I have learned so that you may find your own journey in mine, and know that recovery is earned through discipline and hunger for wellness, and perhaps even finding that you and I cross paths.

“There before the grace of God go I.”

Today, April 3, 2021, I am grateful for being able to say that the trajectory of my life is always pointed towards wellness through spiritual solutions and self care, and serving others. I am well.

My children and granddaughters will now find meaning in my legacy…they will have a healthy model of “Self” to emulate, and they will deeply connect to themselves and understand that any and all of the choices that they make offers them the opportunity and freedom to live their healthiest life…body, mind and spirit.

My life was saved on April 3, 2013…for me, for my children, and to serve others living with Substance Use Disorder as I am guided by the Universe.

Each morning I pray, “Dear Spirit, today please show me where to go, who to see, what to say and to whom to help another person.”

Let another blessed day of life begin.”

With love, blessings and gratitude.

Sat Nam,

Wendy

“Once Spirit has introduced us to the one whose soul is enmeshed with ours, we understand the words soulmate, Twinflame, eternal and home. We may even take a different path and lose our way along our journey, but home is never far away.

Follow your soul. Listen to your heart. Feel it in your body. Communicate through Spirit.

Close your eyes.

You are home.”

Love, Wendy

When he claims to “love” deeply, and then in a triggered moment leaves without communication for months, and subsequently spews venom of one’s past where disease consumed her brain, her body and her spirit, “love” takes on the definition of ANGER.

Anger comes to the surface and explodes like a volcano when sadness is suppressed, yet overflowing, and longing for connection to one’s beloved is no longer certain.

It takes great maturity and insight of one’s own patterns to intentionally create new patterns that serve one’s healthiest life, and to provide wellness for himself and for that of his beloved, including admitting to one’s self that there has been deep sadness, disappointment and loss that have been at the crux of one’s ongoing patterns for decades.

Real love of oneself and of his beloved are not easily angered, and when one is self aware and has the skills to self regulate in building loving relationships, love is everlasting.

Love, Wendy

“A deceptive tongue speaks the truth.”

Love, Wendy