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BOOK, Harmonious Health 4 Life

Self worth, self love and self care is sexy! – Love, Wendy

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Once certain situations arise and reveal themselves, you don’t feel the same way about people, no matter who they are. It’s a natural part of life, and it will change over one’s lifetime as each situation changes and evolves.

Sometimes, experiences reframe our reality in ways we never expected. Sometimes, it is those very same circumstances that help us to learn, to grow and to evolve, and to connect to our inner selves even more profoundly.

Instead of obsessively trying to make sense of one’s perplexing behavior, constant mixed messages, and one’s relationship instability, ask yourself whether you really want to pursue a connection that is distinguished by inconsistency, instability, immaturity and impermanence.

Have the mindset of “My worth is non negotiable.”

Attract relationships that offer unconditional love, devotion, and steadfastness.

Trust me, when we change our inner dialogue and raise the bar, we stand in our power and we meet a partner we never imagined we could attract.

Self worth, self love and self care is sexy!

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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Unless and Until – Love, Wendy

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Oh, trust me…

They are perfectly aware. It is their strategy.

And yet…

They are blinded by their own darkness to the truth that everything they thought would destroy you has somehow been a conduit for growth. It has all been God’s plan to guide you to evolve.

They cannot understand how all of their strategizing, lying and scheming that they thought would break you simply built your character. You embraced each experience and turned it into a learning tool.

As they continue to live in their ego, they will never, ever get it.

And that is exactly the reason that they will never, ever have it.

The greatest lesson that I have taken away from it all is that when we “know God,” we live in abundance, blessings, and peace.

And they will never, ever experience this…

Unless and until…

Love,

Wendy

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Love yourself – Love, Wendy

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Chronic disappointment of a loved one born of expectations and the human need and desire for love, will lead to learned permanent indifference and detachment. It is the way our brain protects us from further emotional pain.

We cannot expect others to love us in the way that we love. When we continue to go back to a dry well, we eventually become depleted and dehydrated…thirsting for love that is unavailable.

Give yourself the love that you thirst for, and surround yourselves with those whose cup runneth over… in love.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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I Observe in Wonder – Love, Wendy

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I observe those around me that feed and even thrive on toxic narratives.

I observe and wonder what those who mindfully engage in these narratives must have lived through that they must speak evil falsehoods against others to deflect from the way that they feel about themselves.

I observe and I feel sad for their inner conflict.

I observe and shake my head in disbelief as their anger at themselves purposefully misfires at an innocent bystander.

These are the souls who are spiritually disconnected.

I observe.

I wonder.

I pray.

I create a safe space around me filled with empathy, forgiveness and love.
I inhale, and I exhale my thoughts of compassion out into the world.

If we are truly present, the most invaluable and priceless gift that we can offer to our global community is one where we mindfully turn toxicity into peace, love and wellness using our thoughts and our energy.

I believe that hate and jealousy is innate and deep rooted anger towards oneself, and self judgement of their thoughts and decisions. Perhaps even envy of another that they desire to be, but have not yet found their spiritual connection.

And I hold the space for the healing of these precious and misguided souls.

“What our world needs now is love.” And we can tap into that love through an intrinsic connection to self and to the Universe.

Love,

Wendy

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God cannot save everyone – Love, Wendy

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God cannot save everyone.

Even through constant prayer, I have seen for years that one I love has reached the point of no return. Angry. Judgemental. Unyielding. Unforgiving. Brainwashed by the masses.

This often takes place in the psyche of one who lacks self worth, self esteem, self regulation and awareness, and cannot regulate their emotions when it comes to social awareness. And it is prevalent in relationships where this “lack of” takes the form of toxicity that breeds chronic uncertainty and fear, that which becomes unsustainable.

This often takes place where a soul does not “know God.”

I know that God offers us options. He loves us unconditionally. He opens doors that lead to healthy choices, healing and redemption. Doors that lead to love, and a life filled with peace, joy and connection. A life where we have the opportunity to be connected, protected and guided by our loving God.

And in some cases, as I have said many times, “You can only lead the horse to the water.”

I prayed for him for years. I wanted to believe he was the man he pretended, or even wanted to be, only to be shown, by our loving God, the truth…day after day, year after year.

I still pray for her because I believe she is at a crossroads and about to turn the corner. I love my daughter deeply and I believe she will walk through an open door invitation before it is too late. #sheismydaughter

There is so much truth in the saying, “God helps those who help themselves.”

After all, look at me. Getting ready to enter my 12th year of recovery from addiction. I crawled through the door very near to my death, where God helped me up, and showed me the way, and I never looked back.

“There before the grace of God go I.”

God cannot save all of his children, but he always loves them just the same.

I will always love you just the same.

Love,

Wendy