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LOVE CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS – LOVE, WENDY

“When the Universe steps in and ties your hands behind your back, there is no choice other than to surrender. Pray. Meditate. Listen. Pause for peace through the knowing that the love of the Universe can move mountains.

And, when it involves a loved one, especially one’s child, there is no choice other than to trust. Pray. Meditate. Listen. Pause for peace through the knowing that the love of the Universe can move mountains.

Pray again. Surrender it to the Universe. Trust.

Love can move mountains.”

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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IT WAS ALL FOR MY CHILDREN – LOVE, WENDY

There is a definite ripple effect onto our children when we are living with a mental health disorder as they grow up and evolve into their own adulthood.

And, when we have the presence of mind to understand our disorder, and to ask for help to heal, we may be able to lead by example for our precious adult children.

It is a possibility. It is never too late to create change.

It takes a realization of how a generational disease continues to filter down to generation after generation until one, like myself, breaks the chain of inherent disease. Once I discovered, middle aged, that our DNA does not have to define us for the rest of our lives, I changed the trajectory of my own mental health. With persistence and patience with my adult children, I lead by a healthy example through spiritual solutions and self care.

I do not remain disheartened in my past. There is no way to change what has happened.

The only change that I may create, is one in the present moment.”

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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ARE YOU LISTENING? – LOVE, WENDY

“I prefer that the truth come directly from the one managing it so methodically for their own gain and agenda.

Oh, don’t get me wrong, I already know the truth. I am completely aware of the “truth.” I have lived with the truth for years. I observe with a heightened awareness second to none.

We only grow and evolve when we take responsibility for our words and behaviors, and when we are willing to make the necessary changes to evolve within. When we humble ourselves. And it builds character. It builds integrity. It speaks about the man before the man enters. It shows that one’s conscience is alive and has extinguished the ego.

This type of evolving soul steps forward when they become so sick and tired of hearing their own “truth.” When they no longer choose for their life to be defined by the lie that which it has become. That which has disappointed me hundreds of times.

I am the observer.

Oh, and sometimes, the Universe speaks.

Are you listening?”

Love, Wendy

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PODCAST:LIFE BEYOND OUR WILDEST DREAMS WITH DENISE MCDOUGAL – LOVE, WENDY

Click here to listen! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wendy-blanchard-ms-inhc-nycps-integrative-recovery/id1568421139?i=1000540550488

Thanks to Denise McDougal for this platform to have an open dialogue about mental health and substance use disorder/alcohol use disorder.

We must normalize these disorders in order to provide necessary treatment and solutions for this brain disorder that is diagnosable, treatable and manageable where we in fact do live a life beyond our wildest dreams.

Love and blessings,

Wendy

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Happy Halloween:Behind the Mask – Love, Wendy

Little by little the truth leaks out until one day, years later, one is standing in an ocean of lies. Drowning. Like a cancer that has been silently growing for years that has now saturated ones spirit.

My heart has always been pure and has always been willing to accept that people make mistakes, myself included. Forgiveness allows us to be free of the past and begin again. When we love someone, we want to believe their words are heartfelt rather than ego driven, selfish, and with an agenda that serves only their needs.

When we allow another to speak their “truth,” over and over throughout the years, and our pure heart chooses to forgive, yet their behavior has run off in another direction with a third party, once again, their “truth” is left to speak for itself. Dead silence. This is where truth exists.

And, when we invite into our lives, year after year, “truth” that is a disguise for a deceptive mind and heart, where the tongue has a “knee jerk” reaction to the intentional words spoken, it is also an invitation for insanity…expecting different results without any mindful change. “Nothing changes if nothing changes.” The makings of a great Halloween costume, yet worn all year round.

Be cognizant of the fact that there is a definite correlation between truthfulness and ones integrity. One cannot exist without the other.

Truth exists in silence. Lies are found swirling in a cacophony of boisterous, grandiose, empty words and actions. “The silence is deafening”, as my mother used to say.

Beware of what exists behind the mask.

The truth is always revealed.

Happy Halloween.”

Love and blessings,

Wendy