In order to create new healthy patterns, you have to unlearn unhealthy patterns and behaviors…
Those patterns that you observed and that which caused the dismantling of the relationship are all still there…they are still toxic…they are masking them behind the apologies and tears…
completely fictitious…
but trust me…
nothing changes if nothing changes…
Patterns are strong predictors of true presence…or lack thereof…
I may not say a word…but believe me…
I see everything…
on the cover, and inside between the lines.
It is the same old story.
I have read it before…
the plot twists, the illusion of change…
I know how this ends.
I have closed the book on this familiar fairy tale, and have chosen a beautiful piece of a non fiction narrative…realistic, riveting, ready to meet us where we are, and rooted in truth…
where love is the happily ever after I have prayed about.
Love and blessings,
Wendy
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