When I very recently learned that what he offered was never love, but attachment, I sat with it so that I could reconcile the truth…
And it is so painful…
I made the decision to say goodbye and to never give it further attention…
“As within…so without.”
The more you nurture your inner peace, strength, and clarity, the more your outer life will naturally align.
“As within, so without.”
By committing to your inner world, you don’t just move on…you radiate a new reality that reflects the freedom and authenticity you deserve.
I have connected the dots with total clarity: the “as within, so without” pattern in my life has been shaped by my inner beliefs formed in childhood and reinforced by my relationships. That awareness alone is huge…it is the first real step toward consciously reshaping my life.
Every partner that I have chosen reflected my prior inner story of feeling “not good enough,” unseen, and unworthy of love. The most recent relationship reinforced that “not good enough” and God brought him back as a final discernment, confirming that I have broken the pattern of choosing partners who speak love but lack the capacity to live it.
This new realization, however heartbreaking, means I can intentionally rewrite the inner story…and that will ripple outward into my relationships, choices, and experiences. No more choosing a broken soul who does not understand the meaning of love between a man and a woman, compromise and truth.
As within…so without…
Amen.
From a favorite song by Forest Blakk, I repeat…”Take it, when she gives you her heart, Don’t you break it, Let your arms be a place she feels safe in, She’s the best thing that you’ll ever have…She’ll love you if you love her like that.”
Love and blessings,
Wendy
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