If you attract a partner who is inauthentic time and time again, I suggest, when in doubt of a potential partner, don’t do anything.
I only trust God to bring me the right person in the future. It is so disappointing to me to learn that a man who I trusted just needed his ego fed, a compassionate ear to listen, and offered nothing in return. Thankfully it was never more than a close friendship, well, a one-way friendship.
Oh, the stories I could tell.
But, I won’t.
Recently, with my own eyes and ears, I observed this person doing, and saying the exact things to another woman that he did with me. And she bought in. She was gushing.
Poor woman.
Men like this seek out women who may be going through a difficult time and who needs love and attention. This was my case years ago. Once I become a strong, independent, self sufficient woman, he disconnected and only contacted me when he needed something. He was taking advantage of my good heart and generous spirit.
When in doubt, don’t. Of men or women.
I always listen to my gut, except that I didn’t.
Allow God to choose.
And you will feel the difference. God is love. He will bring you love.
At a certain age in the aging process, I realized that I have me, always and forever. I am all that I need along with my devoted, loving family and dearest friends.
Today, I am the happiest and the most peaceful I have ever been.
Just a little something extra for your Christmas stocking. Savor my words. It is a gift of experience.
Love and blessings,
Wendy
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