One of my greatest lessons is my self worth is not defined by anyone else, most especially one who was dishonest and dishonorable throughout our relationship.
And I finally realized that his behaviors and chronic patterns of lying are all about him.
For a number of years after I left the relationship five years ago, I had been grieving the man that I wished he was, and not the man that he actually is.
At last.
We do not need a vote or validation from a partner who lived a double life.
I finally came to the realization after my deep inner work and self exploration that I was always enough, and he never was in his own mind.
I am now experiencing a deep spiritual connection that encompasses integrity, transparency, honesty and devotion.
At last.
Love, Wendy
Write Pray Recover 